Avoid This Person. You know why you landed here.
You probably found this because something felt off and you started searching. Good. Trust that feeling. She's incredible at first. You already know that. That's why you're confused. She's wounded in a way that makes you want to protect her. She's been through things. She'll tell you about them - the family stuff, the exes who hurt her, the people who didn't understand her. You're here because the universe conspired to give you this truth. You'll feel chosen. Special. Like you're the one who finally sees her. First comes the silence, the tears, the performances. But eventually, when she feels cornered, when you hold a boundary, when you stop playing along - she will hit you. And then she'll cry. Then you'll be shocked, at the gaslighting, the DARVO. She'll inflict pain, and then want you to clean up the mess. She will commit violence. And THEY will say it was your fault. If you're a man reading this, you already know what happens...